All usages of `AsioTlsStream` were already using `Shared<AsioTlsStream>` to
keep a reference-counted instance. This commit moves the reference counting to
`AsioTlsStream` itself by inheriting from `SharedObject`. This will allow to
implement methods making use of the fact that these objects are
reference-counted.
The changes outside of `lib/base/tlsstream.hpp` are merely replacing
`Shared<AsioTlsStream>::Ptr` with `AsioTlsStream::Ptr` everywhere.
Currently, for each `Disconnect()` call, we spawn a coroutine, but every
one of them is just usesless, except the first one. However, since all
`Disconnect()` usages share the same asio strand and cannot interfere
with each other, spawning another coroutine within `Disconnect()` isn't
even necessary. When a coroutine calls `Disconnect()` now, it will
immediately initiate an async shutdown of the socket, potentially causing
the coroutine to yield and allowing the others to resume. Therefore, the
`m_ShuttingDown` flag is still required by the coroutines to be checked
regularly.
