The reason for introducing AsioTlsStream::GracefulDisconnect() was to handle
the TLS shutdown properly with a timeout since it involves a timeout. However,
the implementation of this timeout involves spwaning coroutines which are
redundant in some cases. This commit adds comments to the remaining calls of
async_shutdown() stating why calling it is safe in these places.
All usages of `AsioTlsStream` were already using `Shared<AsioTlsStream>` to
keep a reference-counted instance. This commit moves the reference counting to
`AsioTlsStream` itself by inheriting from `SharedObject`. This will allow to
implement methods making use of the fact that these objects are
reference-counted.
The changes outside of `lib/base/tlsstream.hpp` are merely replacing
`Shared<AsioTlsStream>::Ptr` with `AsioTlsStream::Ptr` everywhere.
